Soteriology (Laity) 2024/2025 Discussion Board 1

[Chibuike Onyeogulu]

A true understanding of God’s love (agape love) transforms not only how we see ourselves but how we live, love, and relate to others. Unlike friendship love, which is beautiful yet limited by human incapability, God’s love is divine, boundless, and redemptive which is the backbone of our salvation.

Three Truths About God’s Love
God’s love is unconditional and sacrificial: God’s love is not based on our merit or behavior. He loved us even when we were undeserving. God’s love is offered to us freely and without prerequisites. It is the love demonstrated when Christ died for us—even while we were still sinners (Romans 5:8). This sacrificial, grace-filled love overrides our human tendencies toward conditional affection

God’s love is everlasting and unchanging: Unlike human affection and emotions, which can vary with circumstances and moods, God’s love is everlasting (Jeremiah 31:3). It stands firm through every season of life, offering stability and assurance regardless of our failures or successes. His love is not swayed by time, failure, or distance.

God’s love is transformative and redemptive: When we truly grasp God’s love, it changes us from the inside out. It does more than comfort you, it transforms you. This love has the power to heal wounds, dissolve doubts, and renew your purpose by aligning you with a transcendent mission of compassion and redemption. His love empowers us to love others (1 John 4:19), forgive, and live with purpose.

Three Ways God’s Love Differs from Friendship Love
Origin and Nature: Friendship love is built on mutual attraction, shared experiences, and reciprocity. In contrast, God’s love flows directly from His divine nature. It is not earned but is given freely as a fundamental characteristic of who God is (1 John 4:16). Friendship love can grow or fade, but God’s love is who He is.

Depth and Reach: While friendships are precious, they are naturally subject to the vicissitudes of human behavior, emotions, and circumstances. God’s love, however, endures beyond the limitations of time and change—it is eternal and unbreakable (Romans 8:38–39). No human love can match that kind of permanence and power, God’s love reaches into the depths of your soul and eternity.

Purpose and Effect: Friendship love comforts and supports, but God’s love redeems and restores. Friendship offers support, guidance, and shared joy, but its impact is confined to our earthly relationships. God’s love, on the other hand, is redemptive—it restores our brokenness, redeems our faults, and calls us into a life that mirrors His forgiving, transformative grace. His love doesn’t just walk beside us, it saves us (1 John 4:10).

In conclusion, understanding God’s love is not just theological—it’s deeply personal. It gives us identity, security, and a calling to love others with the same grace we’ve received. Friendship love is a gift, but God’s love is the source from which all true love flows

[VictorKachi]

A true understanding of God’s love suggests that there is a false understanding of his love. Having accurate knowledge of something prevents Abuse from taking flight.

If you have a friend and that friend offends you or say something to you that you don’t expect them to say and they are trying to explain to you the mistake they made, you might end that friendship and throw away the years of friendship but what makes you stop and listen is the balance of God’s (agape) love.

Truths about God’s love
A) God’s love (Agape) is the highest form of Love.
1 John 5:4, John 15:13
There are four major words translated as love in Greek. These four kinds of love are: storge, which is family love; phileo, which is friendship love; eros, which is sexual or physical love; and then there is agape, which is God’s kind of love. When we say God is love we ain’t saying God is storge, phileo or Eros. God is love (agape) but love is not God. While friendship, love, and all other types of love are important, they are still human forms of love. They come with their own downsides, limitations, and shortcomings. Friendship love is like a two-legged stool; it requires God’s love to be stable, but God’s love does not rely on friendship love or any other type of love.

B) God’s love is characterized by being unconditional and sacrificial.
Romans 5:6-8 NKJV,MSG
There is no believe system that the founder laid down his life for his friends or followers. In spite of the risks, Christ still died for all. He did not allow the risks involved in love stop him from loving and giving his life

C) God’s love is all-encompassing. John 3:16
“… for God so loved the world…”, not the church.
God’s love is described as all-encompassing. While we were yet sinners, christ died for us. God proved His love for us by acting first. He didn’t make arrangements with us ahead of time, or wait for us to become strong and godly and worthy of being saved. He loved us and took action to save us while we were still helpless to save ourselves because of our sin. Rom 5:6

Three ways in which God’s love is distinct from the love found in friendship
1) The element of risk
1 John 4:18
In friendships, there often exists a fear factor, leading to thoughts like, “What if I reach out to this person and they reject my love? Is this individual truly worth my affection?”. In contrast, God’s love is not hesitant. It is a love that led Him to send His only begotten Son to die a gruesome death on the cross. One might assume that such love is irreparably damaged. However, God’s love repeatedly leaves the ninety-nine to seek out the one; one might wonder, “What if He loses the ninety-nine in the process of finding the one?”. One thing is sure, God’s love cannot be comprehended by our senses, it is a supernatural and revelational love based on a decision to love revealing a clear determination of will.

2) Motivation and Expectations
Friendship love (Phileo) is often motivated by emotion, pity or even a sense of obligation. it typically entails a mutual expectation of reciprocity. This relationship is inherently bilateral, emphasizing the importance of both parties. Most people pull back from love because they have been abused Phil 1:9-10
In contrast, God was motivated by solely by Love. God’s love is not self-centered; it does not prioritize its own interests, nor is it driven by selfish motives. It does not contemplate what it might gain or lose. Instead, God’s love is defined by the act of giving selflessly, without any anticipation of receiving something in return.

3) Duration
God’s love is everlasting, while friendship love is time-limited. Rom 8:38-39, Jer 31:3

In conclusion, God’s love is the highest and most perfect kind of Love. God’s essential nature is Love. He doesn’t oscillate between love and hate. If we consistently dedicate more time to reflecting on the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, the eyes of our hearts will be continually enlightened, allowing us to witness the most profound demonstration of Love. This revelation will facilitate a continuous manifestation of the supernatural in an individual’s life thus fulfilling the Bible’s command for a healthy love towards one another. John 13:34
 

[Humble oluchi God’s power]

A true understanding of God’s love (Agape love) can transform one’s life, providing a multitude of advantages and revelations. Fundamentally, God’s love represents a deep and steadfast commitment that goes beyond human understanding.

God’s love is known as Agape love: Agape love represents a selfless, sacrificial, unconditional, and steadfast type of love that places the welfare of others above all. It is frequently regarded as the supreme form of love—the kind of love that God has for humanity and the type of love that Christians are encouraged to extend to others.

Three Aspects Of God’s Love

1) God’s Love Is Unconditional. (Romans 5:8)
This truth signifies that His love does not depend on conditions or prerequisites. It is not contingent upon performance or behavior; rather, it is a gift of grace.

This love is given freely, without any expectation of reciprocation. God exemplifies love and compassion. His love is unconditional, embracing all of us, irrespective of our actions.

2) God’s Love Is Sacrificial. (John 15:13)
From this scripture, we see that God’s love is sacrificial. This indicates His readiness to relinquish something precious. God sent His only Son, Jesus Christ, to the cross at Calvary for our benefit—to settle our sin debt. He gave Himself for humanity’s sake. That sacrifice was essential to atone for our sins and to restore our relationship with God.

3) God’s Love Is Everlasting. (Jeremiah 31:3)
God’s love is everlasting; it is eternal. It is something we can experience and cherish now, on earth, and for eternity. God’s love is infinite, reaching out to all.

How God’s Love Differs From Friendship Love

A) God’s love encompasses all aspects of life, but
Friendship love has its limitations; while it is supportive and meaningful, it can be conditional, influenced by shared experiences, and subject to change. Friendships necessitate effort and care to thrive.

B) God’s love remains unwavering, but Friendship love, while precious, can fluctuate, is frequently confined to particular relationships, and may not last indefinitely.

C) God’s love is infinite and eternal, while Friendship love is finite and confined, can be influenced by emotions, circumstances, and conflicts. Mainly in the selfless actions of parents, partners, friends, and even strangers who prioritize others’ needs over their own.

Overall. By understanding the distinct characteristics of God’s love and its differences from friendship love, we can enhance our faith and foster more significant connections with others.This insight facilitates a consistent manifestation of the supernatural in our lives.

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